Celebration

| Jun 16, 2011
Last weekend I had the privilege and fun of hosting a baby shower. It's been awhile since I've hosted one, but this shower was particularly special.

My friend has been experiencing infertility for the last three years. She has a physiological reason for her infertility and the likelihood of her conceiving without medical help was seemingly impossible. For the last three years she has endured not only infertility treatments - drugs, surgery, scans, blood tests and a complete loss of privacy - she has also experienced pregnancy loss four times. My heart has ached for my friend as we've prayed, cried, grieved and walked together. She has invited me into those inner recesses of her heart which I count a privilege. She's taught me so much about compassion and care for those in need or hurting.

So, this shower was super special because miraculously (and there is no other explanation) she conceived last year without medical intervention. This was a hope we'd all had, but in all honesty would never have imagined. So, in three weeks she is expecting her little boy!!! AMAZING!!!!

One thing I've learned in life is that celebration is one of the ways that we can not only enjoy those moments of excitement or joy, but also a way to thank God for His provision in our lives. Whether the event is small or big, celebrating those things along the way helps keep our focus on the One who has above all - good or hard. So....we celebrated this special baby.

My friend, K and I decided that we had to make this the party of the year. S deserves it!!! It was weeks in the planning, invitations were sent out super early so that people could get it into their diaries and K & I worked our little butts off to make sure it was the best party ever.

We went with a colour scheme of blue and green - bright aqua blues and greens. So pretty!! We got my mom to send stuff from the USA, we designed a table layout that would have done Amy Atlas proud (check out her website - so gourmet to quote K), we cooked, we baked, we printed, we gathered, we shopped, we picked green and blue candies out of the bulk bins, we cleaned, we rearranged and had a blast. Here's a couple of pics of what we did.
I made the cake. It turned out so good!
Here's our cool table design!! The jars have candy in them.



Some of the decorations we had.
S had a great time and I know she felt loved and felt that it was so important to celebrate not only this little miracle that God has given her, but also celebrate her perseverance, her heart, her courage, her walk with God, her inspiration and her care she shows others.

So, even if celebration doesn't come naturally to you....celebrate...the small things, the big things, the hard things and the fun things. It's all about "rejoicing in the Lord always, and again I say rejoice"!!!
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Colour fills my soul!!!

| Jun 2, 2011
One thing I have come to know about myself is that I LOVE colour! Colour just makes my heart feel good and so reflective of the occasion, season or mood....BUT I live in a country that likes colour, but definitely not super bright or in all seasons, so my colour-personality has been tempered somewhat.

About 12 years ago I bought a hot pink outfit. It was a skirt and tailored top. I loved it!! My favourite colour and so expressive of who I was. I wore this outfit (well, the top half) to a student function and soon realised that I was the ONLY person wearing something colourful. The room was full of black, browns and navy. It was winter and it was New Zealand. My hubby later told me that he had very mixed feelings as I really stood out. Being a more retiring type, he didn't enjoy the attention. :) I never really wore that top again or the outfit as I felt self-conscious about being so bright.

A few years later I was in the USA which is the land of colour and bright clothing. I was excited because I knew that I could wear brighter colours and not stand out. One day at work I was wearing a bright aqua top. Another fave colour and top and a co-worker said "that's a bright top" and all my colour phobias came crashing down on me again. Darn!!

Well, in the years since those incidences, I have come to realise that I just love colour and it's ok. As long as I am not TOO out of fashion, then I will always be wearing the brighter pinks, aquas and reds. They make me feel good, they make me feel happy and  make me feel pretty.

I also love colour in my home and I love coordinating colours so that things go together well. Some friends of mine recently introduced me to Amy Atlas. She's an event planner in the US and I just love how she uses colour to show off desserts and to decorate. Here's her website. Go and have a look. It's super fun and kind of inspiring too.

Here's to colour and the joy it brings!!!
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I've been married for 32 years to the love of my life and we have two awesome adult kids and a fantastic son-in-law. Big new adventure moving to Texas from New Zealand in February 2021

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